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Beyond Black and White: Finding Your Free Will in the Spectrum of Emotion
We get stuck forcing life into boxes. This post uses science (like the emotional frequency spectrum and heart coherence) to show you how to move past rigid, black-and-white thinking and access your intuitive, whole self.
Kristen Vallely
3 days ago4 min read


The Catalyst: Transformative Benefits of Individual Therapy
Discover how individual therapy supports healing, self-awareness, and growth. Learn what to expect in sessions and how therapy can improve your life.
Kristen Vallely
Jan 204 min read


Unraveling The Transactional Self: Why You Are Not Unlovable
Discover how cultural conditioning shapes negative core beliefs—and how EMDR therapy and self-compassion can help you reclaim your inherent worth.
Kristen Vallely
Dec 1, 20252 min read


'Tis the Season – to Give to Yourself
Stop the holiday burnout. This year, redefine giving by learning to prioritize your own needs, shift from expensive gifts to Love Languages, and cope with family disappointment.
Kristen Vallely
Nov 25, 20253 min read


The Conscious Key: Using Intention to Unlock Unconditional Love & Healthy Reciprocity
Is your relationship running on autopilot? Learn how conscious intention is the single most powerful tool to transform love from a reactive habit into an unconditional, deeply connected practice. Discover the essential daily intentions needed for true self-advocacy, healthy boundaries, and lasting peace.
Kristen Vallely
Nov 13, 20253 min read


Understanding the Seasonal Slide in Autoimmune Health
As a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist living with autoimmune conditions, I understand the “seasonal slide”—that frustrating worsening of fatigue, joint pain, and brain fog as the weather shifts. In this post, I explore the real mind-body connection behind seasonal autoimmune flares and share research on temperature, barometric pressure, Vitamin D, and stress. I also highlight new hope for chronic illness management.
Kristen Vallely
Oct 1, 20254 min read


Radical, Unconditional Self Love
Self Compassion & Common Obstacles to Self-Love
Kristen Vallely
Nov 19, 20196 min read
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