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Beyond Black and White: Finding Your Free Will in the Spectrum of Emotion
We get stuck forcing life into boxes. This post uses science (like the emotional frequency spectrum and heart coherence) to show you how to move past rigid, black-and-white thinking and access your intuitive, whole self.
Kristen Vallely
3 days ago4 min read


Beyond the Core Partner: Why Relationship Diversity is Key to Mental Health
We often place the risky burden of meeting all our needs on one person. Discover why treating your relationships like a diverse investment portfolio is the key to emotional security and managing disappointment.
Kristen Vallely
Jan 164 min read


Beyond Listening: The Hidden Work of Interpersonal Processing in Therapy
Why does therapy work? It’s not just talking. The real, hidden work involves using the therapeutic relationship as a microcosm to understand your relational blueprint, challenge old schemas, and expand your capacity for secure connection. Dive into the meta level of change.
Kristen Vallely
Jan 13 min read


The Unspoken Cost of War: Why American Men Struggle With Feelings and How We Can Fix It
Are men doomed to repeat the cycle of silence? Learn how generational trauma and the cultural suppression of feelings impact relationships and public safety through a lack of emotional regulation.
Kristen Vallely
Dec 16, 20254 min read
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