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Plato's Cave & Mental Health: Healing From Family Dysfunction When They Stay Behind
When you choose to heal from generational patterns, you inevitably discover that the growth you crave may not resonate with the people you love. Using the allegory of Plato's Cave, we explore the agonizing truth that maintaining your health requires accepting the limited capacity and intrinsic choices of family members—even if they choose to remain in the shadows. We discuss the difference between rescue and inspiration, and why leaving the Cave is a necessary decision to try
Kristen Vallely
Jan 65 min read


The Unspoken Cost of War: Why American Men Struggle With Feelings and How We Can Fix It
Are men doomed to repeat the cycle of silence? Learn how generational trauma and the cultural suppression of feelings impact relationships and public safety through a lack of emotional regulation.
Kristen Vallely
Dec 16, 20254 min read


More Than Nostalgia: Acknowledging the Grief in Adult Holiday Seasons
The effortless joy of childhood holidays is often replaced by the stress and sorrow of adult realities. If the festive season feels heavy this year, you are not alone. This post explores why the holidays change and how to find peace when you are grieving the magic of Christmas past.
Kristen Vallely
Dec 15, 20255 min read


'Tis the Season – to Give to Yourself
Stop the holiday burnout. This year, redefine giving by learning to prioritize your own needs, shift from expensive gifts to Love Languages, and cope with family disappointment.
Kristen Vallely
Nov 25, 20253 min read


The Power of Screen-Free Mealtimes: Hunger for Connection
We often miss our child's emotional bids—the 'knock at the door'—when our phones are out. Why are screen-free mealtimes are vital for building resilience, language skills, and deep family connection? Learn more.
Kristen Vallely
Nov 24, 20254 min read


Families Are Like Lasagna: Why Healing Takes More Than an Hour
Families are layered. The identified patient isn't the problem, but the messenger. Family therapy needs longer sessions (75-90 min) to break cycles, build empathy, and truly heal.
Kristen Vallely
Aug 1, 20253 min read
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